A Lesson from My Dad That Changed Everything
As the anniversary of my dad’s passing approaches, I’ve found myself reflecting more than usual.
It honestly feels like just yesterday I was helping my mom transition into assisted living. That experience—equal parts emotional and logistical—brought up memories of a lesson my dad taught me that still shapes how I live and work today.
Things like moving can feel massively overwhelming. Whether it’s a full house or just a room of memories, it’s never just about the boxes. It’s about the stories they hold, the emotions they stir, and the decisions we’re often not ready to make.
But here’s what my dad taught me: with the right mindset, anything is possible.
My dad had this incredible “no limits” way of approaching life. He didn’t see age or obstacles as reasons to hold back—he saw them as chances to rise. He taught me how to drive a truck, back up a trailer, use my mirrors, drive a cat, and even to read airplane instruments.
That mindset has guided me in everything from downsizing projects with clients to personal transitions, like helping my mom settle into her new space.
I know many of you are navigating similar journeys—supporting aging parents, facing your own moves, or just wrestling with change. I see you. And I want you to know: it doesn’t have to be chaotic. It can be thoughtful, peaceful—even empowering—with the right support and a clear system.
If you're feeling overwhelmed, remember this: you don’t have to do it all at once, and you don’t have to do it alone. My Systems Approach Method was built exactly for this—born from real-life experience, shaped by the wisdom of people like my dad.
Here’s to honouring the past, supporting the present, and making space for what’s next. 💙
—Marina